No, this isn't a spiritual call to singleness, and no I'm not suggesting you make the same decision.
I'm literally bored with the concept in our society called dating.
This is not descriptive of every single relationship in existence. There are MANY healthy relationships around me.
However, I don't like how dating is in most of American culture.
Did you know some cultures court? As in, they find only a candidate suitable for marriage to exhaust romantic efforts on. They are serious.
I see so many guys, and really, girls for that matter, get into relationships that were never going to work from the get-go. I've seen plenty of guys treat dating like a game and only halfway try to pursue a woman, but I've seen equally as many females settle for flattery and a nice face, even if the guy really doesn't possess qualities of that lady's desired future spouse.
So do what you want. I'm sure I will still go on plenty of dates before I have a ring on my finger, but a date or two isn't a big deal. I just don't want to spend too much time or effort if I see that the guy I am getting to know really isn't someone I want leading my marriage in the future. This may sound silly or way too intense, but understand I highly value quality friendships with people of the opposite sex. I just think focusing on friendships instead of constantly desiring someone to buy me dinner and listen to my problems is a better use of my time.
Whether you are a man or a woman, realize there is no pressure to date. God is constantly pursuing your heart, and if you start reaching back to Him, you may find the contentment you really want until you're ready for any serious commitment to another human being. Also, if you focus on developing deep friendships, you may, in good time realize your friendship has naturally turned into a sustainable relationship.
Just my thoughts.
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